Modern Rituals
Designed to release the old, mark the moment, or call in the next becoming.
Ritual as a Path to Embodiment
Dee guides people through personalized rituals that honor life’s most profound thresholds—grief, reinvention, desire, and the journey of becoming. These potent experiences are grounded in her decades of work in nervous system healing, shamanism, shadow integration, erotic embodiment, and mythic soul work. Her approach integrates the wisdom of yoga, Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, Q’ero shamanism, and trauma-informed somatics. Every ritual is crafted with precision, tailored to your specific life moment, and rooted in deep, attuned presence.
In this work, ritual becomes a vehicle for reclaiming lost parts of yourself and imprinting new patterns on the body and mind. Dee supports you in navigating significant rites of passage—and teaches you how to weave meaningful ritual into the fabric of daily life. Through breath, movement, intention, and symbolic action, you’ll cultivate a practice that not only heals the past but empowers your next becoming.
This is an invitation to engage fully, align with what truly matters, and embody a more integrated, soul-aligned version of yourself.
Dee guides people through personalized rituals that honor life’s most profound thresholds—grief, reinvention, desire, and the journey of becoming. These potent experiences are grounded in her decades of work in nervous system healing, shamanism, shadow integration, erotic embodiment, and mythic soul work. Her approach integrates the wisdom of yoga, Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, Q’ero shamanism, and trauma-informed somatics. Every ritual is crafted with precision, tailored to your specific life moment, and rooted in deep, attuned presence.
In this work, ritual becomes a vehicle for reclaiming lost parts of yourself and imprinting new patterns on the body and mind. Dee supports you in navigating significant rites of passage—and teaches you how to weave meaningful ritual into the fabric of daily life. Through breath, movement, intention, and symbolic action, you’ll cultivate a practice that not only heals the past but empowers your next becoming.
This is an invitation to engage fully, align with what truly matters, and embody a more integrated, soul-aligned version of yourself.
Foundational Practices (Beginner Friendly)
RITES 101: Prepare Your Parachute Before You Jump
This session helps you assess your readiness for a Radical Initiation or Transformative Experience—whether that’s plant medicine, breathwork, sex magic, or an immersive retreat. Together, you’ll clarify your intention, regulate your nervous system, strengthen your ethical compass, and design a personalized plan for integration and aftercare.
Best for: Those preparing for psychedelics, intensive retreats, or peak spiritual experiences.
ER Emotional Release Triage: First Aid for Your Feelings
Learn how to work with acute emotional overwhelm using somatic tools that help energy move through the body. You’ll walk away with daily practices for both upregulation and downregulation, supporting your emotional resilience and nervous system balance.
Best for: Anyone experiencing anxiety, shutdown, reactivity, or emotional heaviness.
Mind Training: Building a Relationship with the Inner Witness
Begin or deepen a mindfulness practice rooted in Tibetan Buddhist insight and the cultivation of the inner observer. This session offers simple tools to help you recognize mental patterns and return to a calm, steady center.
Best for: Those new to meditation, caught in mental loops, or preparing for deep inner work.
Chaos to Clarity: Nervous System Tools to Reclaim Your Power
This session helps you identify and shift patterns of fight, flight, freeze, and fawn through trauma-informed education and embodied practice. You'll learn practical tools to regulate your system and return to a grounded sense of agency.
Best for: Those experiencing burnout, dissociation, or emotional reactivity.
Defining Values in a Post-Truth World
Clarify what truly matters to you using a blend of Moral Foundations Theory and Buddhist insight. Together, you’ll cultivate paradox literacy and deepen your capacity to hold complexity in a divided world.
Best for: People navigating polarization, identity shifts, or “cancel culture” dynamics.
Boundaries Without Guilt: Embodied Truth-Telling
Learn to listen to your body’s cues, speak your truth with clarity, and hold your boundaries with compassion and strength. This session introduces the PAUSE system to support clear, guilt-free communication rooted in self-respect.
Best for: Chronic people-pleasers, those healing codependency, or anyone struggling to say no.
This session helps you assess your readiness for a Radical Initiation or Transformative Experience—whether that’s plant medicine, breathwork, sex magic, or an immersive retreat. Together, you’ll clarify your intention, regulate your nervous system, strengthen your ethical compass, and design a personalized plan for integration and aftercare.
Best for: Those preparing for psychedelics, intensive retreats, or peak spiritual experiences.
ER Emotional Release Triage: First Aid for Your Feelings
Learn how to work with acute emotional overwhelm using somatic tools that help energy move through the body. You’ll walk away with daily practices for both upregulation and downregulation, supporting your emotional resilience and nervous system balance.
Best for: Anyone experiencing anxiety, shutdown, reactivity, or emotional heaviness.
Mind Training: Building a Relationship with the Inner Witness
Begin or deepen a mindfulness practice rooted in Tibetan Buddhist insight and the cultivation of the inner observer. This session offers simple tools to help you recognize mental patterns and return to a calm, steady center.
Best for: Those new to meditation, caught in mental loops, or preparing for deep inner work.
Chaos to Clarity: Nervous System Tools to Reclaim Your Power
This session helps you identify and shift patterns of fight, flight, freeze, and fawn through trauma-informed education and embodied practice. You'll learn practical tools to regulate your system and return to a grounded sense of agency.
Best for: Those experiencing burnout, dissociation, or emotional reactivity.
Defining Values in a Post-Truth World
Clarify what truly matters to you using a blend of Moral Foundations Theory and Buddhist insight. Together, you’ll cultivate paradox literacy and deepen your capacity to hold complexity in a divided world.
Best for: People navigating polarization, identity shifts, or “cancel culture” dynamics.
Boundaries Without Guilt: Embodied Truth-Telling
Learn to listen to your body’s cues, speak your truth with clarity, and hold your boundaries with compassion and strength. This session introduces the PAUSE system to support clear, guilt-free communication rooted in self-respect.
Best for: Chronic people-pleasers, those healing codependency, or anyone struggling to say no.
Self-Discovery & Shadow Work
Archetypal Alignment: Who’s Driving Your Life?
Explore the inner cast of characters shaping your choices, and learn how to engage them with clarity and compassion. This session helps you shift unconscious patterns, reclaim authority, and lead your life with greater intention.
Best for: Creatives, empaths, or anyone stuck in repeating toxic dynamics.
Horse & Rider: A Dialogue Between Mind and Body
This guided process invites a conversation between your thinking mind and intuitive body to uncover what’s been hidden beneath pain, resistance, or numbness. It’s a powerful practice for building trust between your inner knowing and outer action.
Best for: Those navigating chronic pain, body image struggles, or seeking body-mind integration.
Shadow Work: The TRACES Method
Lovingly explore your shadow through the TRACES framework—Trigger, Reflex, Alibi, Core Wound, Echo, and Self-Compassion. This session helps you illuminate unconscious patterns and begin to shift them from the inside out.
Best for: Anyone ready to turn inward, integrate emotional reactivity, and meet themselves more fully.
Explore the inner cast of characters shaping your choices, and learn how to engage them with clarity and compassion. This session helps you shift unconscious patterns, reclaim authority, and lead your life with greater intention.
Best for: Creatives, empaths, or anyone stuck in repeating toxic dynamics.
Horse & Rider: A Dialogue Between Mind and Body
This guided process invites a conversation between your thinking mind and intuitive body to uncover what’s been hidden beneath pain, resistance, or numbness. It’s a powerful practice for building trust between your inner knowing and outer action.
Best for: Those navigating chronic pain, body image struggles, or seeking body-mind integration.
Shadow Work: The TRACES Method
Lovingly explore your shadow through the TRACES framework—Trigger, Reflex, Alibi, Core Wound, Echo, and Self-Compassion. This session helps you illuminate unconscious patterns and begin to shift them from the inside out.
Best for: Anyone ready to turn inward, integrate emotional reactivity, and meet themselves more fully.
Relationship Alchemy
Aspecting: Conversations with the Unreachable
Engage in a guided ritual to speak with someone who is no longer physically or emotionally available—whether through death, distance, or rupture. This practice helps surface unspoken truths, release lingering emotion, and create meaningful closure.
Best for: Unresolved grief, breakups, estrangement, or unexpressed relational dynamics.
Roleplay: Rewire the Brain, Heal the Heart
Step into embodied roleplay to rehearse new boundaries, reverse harmful dynamics, and anchor healthier relational patterns in real time. This practice helps you rewire both nervous system and narrative through direct, felt experience.
Best for: Social anxiety, trauma integration, creative unlocking, or prepping for hard conversations.
Feeding Your Demons & Creating Allies
Transform inner conflict by meeting disowned parts of yourself with presence, compassion, and symbolic nourishment. This modern adaptation of the Tibetan Chöd practice helps you shift fear-based patterns and build new inner alliances.
Best for: Persistent inner critics, addiction loops, or shadow integration.
Ending Soul Contracts & Cutting Karmic Ties
Honor and release energetic bonds that are no longer aligned, whether ancestral, romantic, or familial. Through ritual and expression, this session helps you create space for freedom, grief, and new beginnings.
Best for: Repetitive relational patterns, ancestral healing, or grief release.
Erotic Power & Birth Rituals
Defining Erotic Integrity
Clarify your true desires using Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent and embodied self-inquiry. This session supports you in moving from repression or confusion into expressed, empowered clarity.
Best for: Those exploring non-monogamy, erotic shame healing, or sexual sovereignty.
Yoga Eros: Pleasure as Spiritual Practice
Reclaim pleasure as a sacred resource through breath, movement, sound, and yogic presence. This session invites you to experience sensual aliveness as a doorway to soul.
Best for: Reclaiming desire after trauma or reconnecting with embodied joy.
Sex Magic for Manifestation
Learn how to channel sexual energy into focused, intentional creation using tantric and somatic visualization techniques. This practice helps you align desire, embodiment, and vision—without relying on force or burnout.
Best for: Creatives, visionaries, or those ready to manifest outside “hustle culture.”
Erotic Pleasure for Birth
Prepare for labor by activating the body’s natural pathways to pleasure using breath, sound, touch, and oxytocin-based practices. This session supports expecting couples in approaching birth with connection, confidence, and primal wisdom.
Best for: Pregnant women and partners seeking a conscious, sensually centered birth experience.
Clarify your true desires using Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent and embodied self-inquiry. This session supports you in moving from repression or confusion into expressed, empowered clarity.
Best for: Those exploring non-monogamy, erotic shame healing, or sexual sovereignty.
Yoga Eros: Pleasure as Spiritual Practice
Reclaim pleasure as a sacred resource through breath, movement, sound, and yogic presence. This session invites you to experience sensual aliveness as a doorway to soul.
Best for: Reclaiming desire after trauma or reconnecting with embodied joy.
Sex Magic for Manifestation
Learn how to channel sexual energy into focused, intentional creation using tantric and somatic visualization techniques. This practice helps you align desire, embodiment, and vision—without relying on force or burnout.
Best for: Creatives, visionaries, or those ready to manifest outside “hustle culture.”
Erotic Pleasure for Birth
Prepare for labor by activating the body’s natural pathways to pleasure using breath, sound, touch, and oxytocin-based practices. This session supports expecting couples in approaching birth with connection, confidence, and primal wisdom.
Best for: Pregnant women and partners seeking a conscious, sensually centered birth experience.
Death & Grief Rituals
The Death Session: Let It Die
Release old identities, stories, or beliefs through a blend of Buddhist death meditation and Yoga Nidra. This session helps you surrender with grace and make space for what wants to be born next.
Best for: Identity shifts, divorce, spiritual burnout, or life transitions.
Grief Ritual: Honoring Loss, Finding Wholeness
Move through grief with support, using guided practices that allow space for expression, release, and quiet integration. This ritual creates a sacred container to honor what’s been lost and reconnect with what remains.
Best for: Those navigating loss, mourning, or seeking emotional renewal.
Tonglen: Alchemize the Pain of the Collective
Practice the Tibetan art of Tonglen to transform suffering—yours and the world’s—into spacious compassion. This is a powerful breath-based ritual for transmuting overwhelm into service and soul clarity.
Best for: Empaths, activists, caregivers, or anyone overwhelmed by collective grief.
Release old identities, stories, or beliefs through a blend of Buddhist death meditation and Yoga Nidra. This session helps you surrender with grace and make space for what wants to be born next.
Best for: Identity shifts, divorce, spiritual burnout, or life transitions.
Grief Ritual: Honoring Loss, Finding Wholeness
Move through grief with support, using guided practices that allow space for expression, release, and quiet integration. This ritual creates a sacred container to honor what’s been lost and reconnect with what remains.
Best for: Those navigating loss, mourning, or seeking emotional renewal.
Tonglen: Alchemize the Pain of the Collective
Practice the Tibetan art of Tonglen to transform suffering—yours and the world’s—into spacious compassion. This is a powerful breath-based ritual for transmuting overwhelm into service and soul clarity.
Best for: Empaths, activists, caregivers, or anyone overwhelmed by collective grief.
Tech, AI & Soul Work (NEW)
Initiation into AI as Soul Mirror
Learn to engage artificial intelligence as a tool for deep reflection, self-inquiry, and creative expansion. This session includes a custom-designed GPT experience and a conscious framework for using AI as a sacred co-creator in your personal or spiritual evolution.
Best for: Mystics, creatives, and technologists exploring AI as part of their transformational path.
Digital Dharma: Reclaiming Presence in a Hyperconnected World
Reset your relationship with technology through nervous system practices, digital rituals, and mindful reflection. This session helps you navigate distraction culture with clarity, intention, and embodied presence.
Best for: Overstimulated minds, digital workers, or anyone seeking to reclaim agency in an age of noise.
Learn to engage artificial intelligence as a tool for deep reflection, self-inquiry, and creative expansion. This session includes a custom-designed GPT experience and a conscious framework for using AI as a sacred co-creator in your personal or spiritual evolution.
Best for: Mystics, creatives, and technologists exploring AI as part of their transformational path.
Digital Dharma: Reclaiming Presence in a Hyperconnected World
Reset your relationship with technology through nervous system practices, digital rituals, and mindful reflection. This session helps you navigate distraction culture with clarity, intention, and embodied presence.
Best for: Overstimulated minds, digital workers, or anyone seeking to reclaim agency in an age of noise.
Ritual Price List
Format |
Individual Pricing |
Small Group (up to 6) |
Large Groups (custom quote) |
Online (via Zoom, 2 hours) |
$550 |
$800 |
Inquire for tailored pricing |
In Person (2 hours) |
$700 + travel/space costs |
$950 + travel/space costs |
Inquire for tailored pricing |
Sliding scale and partial scholarships may be available for highly motivated clients in financial need. Please inquire during your intro call.
Bring Ritual to Your Community
Dee has designed custom experiences for a wide range of settings — from intimate bridal showers and baby blessings to team-building ceremonies for nonprofit groups, wellness days for corporate teams, and soul-focused workshops for book clubs or special interest communities.
Whether you’re dreaming of a private ceremony, a group initiation, or a collaborative retreat, Dee will work closely with you to co-create a transformative experience that honors the unique spirit of your gathering.
Contact Dee to explore creating a custom group or organizational experience.
Dee has designed custom experiences for a wide range of settings — from intimate bridal showers and baby blessings to team-building ceremonies for nonprofit groups, wellness days for corporate teams, and soul-focused workshops for book clubs or special interest communities.
Whether you’re dreaming of a private ceremony, a group initiation, or a collaborative retreat, Dee will work closely with you to co-create a transformative experience that honors the unique spirit of your gathering.
Contact Dee to explore creating a custom group or organizational experience.
Praise from Clients
"After my divorce, I felt so incredibly stuck, like I couldn't truly move forward. The weight of the past was holding me back, and I knew I needed a way to formally close that chapter. Dee’s personalized ritual offered exactly what I needed. She created such a sacred and safe space, guiding me through a powerful process of releasing grief and reclaiming my own identity.
During the ritual, I felt a profound sense of release and peace I hadn't experienced in years. It was deeply emotional but also incredibly liberating. Thanks to Dee's compassionate and steady presence, I was able to honor what was, let it go, and truly step into my next phase with a clear heart and renewed sense of self. I can't recommend her ritual work enough for anyone navigating a major life transition."
During the ritual, I felt a profound sense of release and peace I hadn't experienced in years. It was deeply emotional but also incredibly liberating. Thanks to Dee's compassionate and steady presence, I was able to honor what was, let it go, and truly step into my next phase with a clear heart and renewed sense of self. I can't recommend her ritual work enough for anyone navigating a major life transition."
––Jennifer F.
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